2. Application Conditions for the Consensual Divorce Cooling-Off Period
According to the provisions of the Civil Code, the conditions for the application of the consensual divorce cooling-off period are that both men and women voluntarily divorce, have properly handled the issues of children and property, and have been verified by the marriage registration authority. In response, the voices of opposition mainly focus on: if one spouse is subjected to domestic violence, will there be a problem that the victim finally obtains the abuser's consent to divorce but encounters procedural obstacles? Objectively speaking, such situations cannot be completely ruled out, but the probability of their occurrence is not high. There are two reasons for this:
The underlying logic of domestic violence is a control relationship. Most abusers will try every means to control the victim through various means such as violence, threats, economy, and sex. Especially when the victim proposes divorce and attempts to get rid of the abuser's control, the abuser will use all methods to block it. Therefore, objectively speaking, for divorce cases involving domestic violence, the proportion of consensual divorce is not high.
From the perspective of protecting the victim, the litigation divorce method is more conducive to protecting the legitimate rights and interests of the victim. According to the current legal provisions and relevant judicial practice, through litigation, the victim can apply to the people's court for a personal safety protection order to protect their personal safety; at the same time, the people's court will tend to protect the legitimate rights and interests of the innocent victim in terms of determination of divorce fault, attribution of child custody, and division of joint property. It can be said that divorcing through litigation is more beneficial to protecting the rights and interests of victims of domestic violence.
3. Suggestions on the Judicial Application of the Divorce Cooling-Off Period System
(1) During the consensual divorce cooling-off period, a marriage and family relationship counseling, psychological and legal consultation system led by civil affairs departments and implemented by third-party professional institutions should be constructed.
The purpose of establishing the divorce cooling-off period is to make those whose feelings have not broken down reconcile, and those whose feelings have really broken down separate amicably. If both spouses do have the situation of impulsive divorce, it is certainly a good thing that they can regain their senses and reconcile within the 30-day cooling-off period; but relying entirely on their own strength, its effect is probably limited.
Therefore, the author suggests that a "divorce cooling-off period counseling program" led by civil affairs departments can be established. Through government procurement and other methods, services from professional institutions such as marriage and family relationship counseling, psychological counseling and legal services can be purchased to provide professional support for parties in the divorce cooling-off period. For those parties who really divorce impulsively because they are not good at handling family relationships or because of family trivialities, they can try to save their marriage through marriage and family relationship counseling and psychological counseling; for those parties whose marital feelings have really completely broken down and there is no possibility of reconciliation, they can also get out of the psychological shadow of broken feelings and regain confidence with the help of psychological counseling and professional lawyers. On the other hand, professional lawyers can assist parties in timely eliminating potential legal risks in the divorce agreement, so as to avoid conflicts and disputes between parties over property division, child support and visitation, joint marital debts and other issues after the dissolution of the marital relationship.
(2) Make good use of the litigation divorce cooling-off period system to solve the court's difficulty in determining "the marital relationship has really broken down"
As we all know, the divorce condition stipulated in China's Marriage Law is "the marital relationship has really broken down". In practice, if the plaintiff in a divorce case cannot prove that the other party has marital faults, and the other party claims that the marital relationship is still good and disagrees with the divorce, the plaintiff's claim is often difficult to be supported by the court. In response, the plaintiff can certainly wait for six months to sue again, which is regarded as solving the substantive marital relationship problem through procedural methods. This approach is certainly understandable, but what is not widely accepted in practice is that although the defendant in many cases claims to disagree with the divorce and claims that both parties still have feelings in court, in fact, they do not take any specific measures to recover the relationship, and even do not contact the plaintiff at all, purely using the procedure to delay time.
To solve this problem, the Guidelines of the Higher People's Court of Guangdong Province proposed a supporting "emotional repair plan" system in the "emotional repair cooling-off period" system. Article 30 of the Guidelines stipulates that for the party who disagrees with the divorce and "makes a commitment to take the initiative to repair the relationship, the people's court may require him/her to put forward a clear emotional repair plan in combination with the actual situation of the marital relationship". In other words, for the problem mentioned by the author above, the party who disagrees with the divorce can no longer "only talk but not act"; at the same time, to prevent "making a plan but not implementing it", the Guidelines further stipulate that "if a party fails to actively fulfill the emotional repair commitment and plan during the emotional repair cooling-off period, it shall be regarded as an unfavorable factor for the people's court to determine whether the marital relationship has broken down."
Thus, the "emotional repair cooling-off period" will not be set in vain, nor will it make divorce more difficult. Combined with the "emotional repair plan" system, it may instead efficiently solve those dead marriages that have no marital faults but cannot be recovered.
In summary, on the basis of understanding the connotation and application conditions of the divorce cooling-off period system, let us practice together and make good use of it to make the system play a greater role.